Tips for the Bride
8 Months Before the Wedding
Decide on the kind of ceremony , formality, theme and language
Decide on the date and time of the wedding
Decide on the venue (church and reception)
Decide on the color/motif
Determine the budget and sharing of expense
Make initial guest list
Choose the sponsors and members of the entourage (get their full names)
Book church and know the requirements and restrictions
Book reception venue (schedule ocular with decorations)
Choose a priest and check their schedule
Schedule counseling and seminars
Canvass for caterers
Canvass for dressmakers
Canvass for flowers (for entourage and church)
Canvass for favors and giveaways
Canvass for hair and make-up artist
Canvass for rings
Canvass for paper for invitation
Canvass for photographer and videographers
Make a brief on the video presentation (outline)
Canvass on performers
Plan honeymoon
Canvass for houses/townhouses
Inquire about housing loan
Open current account
4 to 7 Months Before the Wedding
Choose type of music for church and reception (collate titles and CDs)
Plan church ceremony and reception program
Book dressmaker (make initial fittings)
Book florist
Book hair and make-up artist
Book caterer and do taste tests
Order giveaways
Book mobile, musicians and performers
Book photographer with contract
Arrange or book for wedding car
Order invitations (buying paper and finalize printing)
Plan and decide where to live
3 Months Before the Wedding
Arrange canonical interview
Attend pre-nuptial seminars (marriage, family planning, etc.) and get corresponding certification
Schedule fittings for yourself and the female entourage
Collate materials (footages, pictures) for video presentation)
Finalize honeymoon bookings (flight and hotel reservations plus itinerary)
Choose gifts for bridal registry (what stores)
Formally advise principal sponsors and members of entourage of their roles (personally or by phone)
Order wedding rings (have them engraved)
Finalize guest list (secure full names and phone numbers)
Secure Original Birth certificate
Secure Baptismal certificate (for marriage purposes)
Secure residence certificate
2 Months Before the Wedding
Secure marriage license for city hall (valid for 120 days from date of issue). Documents required:
1. original birth and baptismal certificates
2. family planning seminar certificate
3. residence certificate
Accomplish Church requirements
Get Permit from bride’s parish (Concepcion)
List of names and addresses of sponsors
For guest priests, provide his name, address, order, license number and expiration date, and position
Schedule and firm up details for wedding rehearsal
Send out invitations (by mail or personal delivery)
Set aside time for bridal showers and parties
Make arrangements for the wardrobe of the groom and the best man
Make missalette with lay-out in computer
1 Month Before the Wedding
Complete bridal accessories:
1. shoes
2. jewelry
3. hosiery
4. arrhae
5. veil
6. cord
7. candles
8. matches
9. confetti/bubbles
Call invited guests for RSVP
Call venue or caterer and re-confirm head count and menu
Make a seat plan for the reception
Send out last-minute invitations
Print-out missalette and have it photocopied or printed
Bind missallette with cover
Finalize plans with photographer and videographer
Arrange transportation for the entire bridal party, priest, gifts, cakes and UPM Chorale
2 to 3 Weeks Before the Wedding
Go over personal stuff for last-minute needs
Schedule final fittings for yourself and entourage
Finalize guest list, call those who have not responded
Do the rehearsal dinner meeting (coordination) with key people in the wedding
Delegate assignments to wedding coordinator, maid-of-honor and other volunteers
Re-confirm important details with all suppliers
Buy and have all presents for sponsors and entourage wrapped
Check on supply of giveaways
Plan honeymoon wardrobe
Check on editing of video presentation
Book a room for wedding night
Remind groom to get a haircut
Attend final church interview
Move things into new home
List things to pack and bring to hotel for wedding day
4 to 6 DAYS Before the Wedding
Re-confirm delivery schedules from all suppliers
Get a good massage and go to a spa
Do trial make-up
Attend confession
Assign people responsible for tasks and things to be brought to ceremony and
reception
1 DAY Before the Wedding Stay happy
Sleep early
Get final manicure the day before
Get a final massage
Listen to your favorite music
On Your Wedding Day
Your primary goal today is to get married and have fun.
Allow at least 2 hours for dressing.
If professionals are doing your hair and makeup, determine the time they will be needed.
If photographs are to be taken before the ceremony, allow plenty of time for that.
Remember to bring the rings and marriage license.
Just be HAPPY and SMILE!
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